Man’s Top 5 Greatest Fears

Ophidiophobia - fear of snakes

Ophidiophobia – fear of snakes

According to the fourth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (more commonly referred to as DSM-IV), a phobia is a kind of anxiety disorder wherein a person has an irrational and sometimes intense fear towards an object or situation. This happens even when the situation or the object being feared is relatively safe.

Each one of us suffers from our own fears. It may be fear of a particular object like spiders, rodents, dogs, blood, water, cramped spaces or heights. Some people may also suffer from being in front of people, or being shy in public. While others suffer from being in crowds, or being alone, or leaving the house to go outside. Whatever it is that causes the fear, it is not rooted in reason.

In fact, a phobia may seem silly to other people who are observing the sufferer. They might even think it is funny, but a phobia can be very debilitating to those who have it.

Many clinicians and psychologists can help you overcome a severe phobia. If you have a tremendous fear of spiders, for example, you might be exposed spiders with the therapist helping you adjust your reactions and control your fears. There are other therapies available for treating phobias, including medication and cognitive behavior therapy.

As mentioned, phobias are not uncommon. The National Institute of Mental Health has estimated that 1 in 10 adults suffer from extreme phobia. The five most common phobias are:

1. Fear of snakes, dogs, spiders
Clinically, this is ophidiophobia, cynophobia and arachnophobia. The fear of animals such as snakes, dogs and spiders may stem from personal experiences like having a dog bit you as a child, or seeing people on TV die from snake bites or spiders. For most people, the thought of having a spider crawl over your body is enough to give you goose bumps, but those who suffer from these type of phobias often have panic attacks, which can be severe enough to disable them.

Mysophobia or germaphobia - fear of dirt and germsMysophobia or germaphobia – fear of dirt and germs

2. The fear of dirt and germs
Mysophobia
or germaphobia is often seen in people who suffer from OCD or obsessive-compulsive disorder. Mysophobics are overly concerned with cleanliness and tend to avoid unclean objects, being in contact with other people. They usually wash hands obsessively. They think that germs will bring diseases and death.

3. Fear of being in open spaces
Agoraphobia
is often characterized by the fear of leaving a safe place like your home, or being in crowded place like malls and parks, or generally open spaces. Agoraphobics hate the thought of having emergency situations in these places that they might stay at home for years on end. People suffering from agoraphobia have their designated safety zones, and if they are taken out of these safety zones, they experience panic attacks.

4. Fear of high places, or heights
Acrophobia can cause a person to become immobile in high places, while being very anxious and extremely fearful. Most acrophobics have jumped to their deaths in an effort to escape the high places that they found themselves in. Acrophobics can find simple things like reaching for something on top of the cupboard, changing lightbulbs, or even climbing stairs very difficult to do.

Glossophobia - fear of speaking in public

Glossophobia – fear of speaking in public

5. Stage fright
Glossophobia is the fear of speaking in public. Glossophobics tend to be very anxious before they are scheduled to talk to an audience or even from thinking about it. They usually avoid having to speak in public where people’s attention is on them. They may suffer from stage fright, nausea, panic attacks or even physical distress.

Decorate Your House with a Whitehall Address Plaque

Whitehall Address Plaque

Whitehall Address Plaque

If you are the type who is fussy about your home décor choices, never missing on the details from the style of your grand chandelier to the form of your doorknobs, you must have in your possession that one fixture beautiful houses cannot exist without, a Whitehall Address Plaque.

There is no hard telling what address plaques are for. Indeed, thank God for the purpose this trusty house fixture serves. In addition to that important task of indicating your location, homeowners are realizing that address plaques do not only offer an ideal way for visitors to identify their homes from the long and wide street, they also give them a unique opportunity to showcase their creativity, personality, even passion.

The people at Outdora online are showcasing an array of Whitehall Address Plaques that reflects diverse decorating preferences and personal touches with designs ranging from classic to patriotic, from nature-inspired to sports-themed. Personalized pieces range from souvenir-type to specialty and commemorative designs.

Browsing through the display Whitewall Address Plaque designs online, you ca tell that the artistic details have been meticulously rendered. As a matter of fact, Whitehall address plaques set the standard in personalized address plaques. All address plaques are made of custom cast aluminum and baked on enamel finish so you are assured that each plaque is rust-free and resistant to weather and fading.

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Why Teddy Bears are Great as a Bridesmaid Gift?

personalized teddy bear as a bridesmaid gift

personalized teddy bear as a bridesmaid gift

Bridesmaids play an important role in weddings. They should be treated equally well as the role they play. They assist the bride when she prepares for the big, elaborate wedding ceremony.

Most women, in the act of planning their weddings, would pick their closest girl friends and lady relatives to be the bridesmaids on their wedding day. As they are either close friends or relatives—or both—to the blushing, blooming bride, they deserve cuddly little keepsakes like teddy bears. These adorable little keepsakes help them remember you on your wedding day.

Online stores selling teddy bears offer those which can be personalized to coincide with the special occasion—in this case, the oncoming wedding. They can be personalized in accordance to the style, preference and taste of the intended recipients. Customizing a teddy bear means giving it a name and choosing how it would look or would be dressed as. For your bridesmaids, perhaps you can go for a wedding-themed teddy bear keepsake with a message especially made for them. The personalized teddy bear gifts are so unique and worth keeping and treasuring that the bridesmaids will surely love them.

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5 Effective Ways to Socialize (w/o crossing sensitive borders)

5 Effective Ways to Socialize

5 Effective Ways to Socialize

Having effective social skills is a must for you to thrive in any social activity. When equipped with interactive proficiency, you can easily expand and establish a network that may be beneficial in the long run. You are also assured to have a good time in any social gathering. If you feel an alarming lack in this personality aspect, then the following might come in very useful in boosting your confidence to socialize without crossing sensitive borders.

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Top 5 Reasons to Love Plurk

Plurk homepage

Plurk is one of the more intriguing lifestreaming sites out on the World Wide Web right now. Launched in May of 2008, it takes the basics of Twitter and dresses them up in a snazzy interface, throwing some pretty interesting features into the mix.

Why "plurk"? The name alone sparks curiosity. According to Plurk’s creators, there are four ideas behind this catchy name. One is People + Lurk – yes, people do lurk online. Second, it is an amalgam of Play and Work, touching on the fun side of plurking. Third, it is an acronym for Peace, Love, Unity, Respect, Karma. Lastly, there is the potential for becoming a coined verb, just like "google".
Now, Plurk users call themselves "plurkers", the act of posting is called "plurking", and the post itself is called a "plurk". Very, very catchy indeed.

So what makes Plurk so much different from Twitter and why do plurkers love it? Here are the top 5 reasons:

1. Threaded Conversations
This is probably the number one feature plurkers love. When you post an update, your friends’ replies can be seen under it. Replies don’t get lost, and friends can read and answer to each other’s replies, turning it into a stimulating discussion. There is no clutter because the conversation only expands when you click on the original post.

2. Unique User Interface
Plurk splits the screen into two parts. The upper section contains your timeline, where all your plurks appear, arranged by the time they were posted. What makes the timeline unique is that it scrolls sideways. You scroll right for the past, and left for your most recent plurks. Scrolling is done either through the arrow keys or the mouse’s scroller.
The lower portion is the dashboard, which contains your info, userpic, friends list, and the post entry box.

3. Karma Points
Plurk addicts live for karma points! Karma points rise based on your activity and the responses of other plurkers to your plurks. More karma gets you access to extra features like additional emoticons or changing the image in your page’s Plurk logo. Getting over 80 karma points means you’ve reached Plurk Nirvana and nets you a shiny badge for your page.

4. Customization
Plurk gives you the freedom to personalize your page. You can choose from built-in color templates, install CSS codes from third-party Plurk layout designers, or create your own.

5. Cliques
One significant Plurk feature is privacy control. You can open your plurk to the world, limit it to friends, or have a private conversation with a single individual, all within your timeline. If you want certain plurks to be read only by specific people, you can group your friends into cliques, and then specify which clique can read your plurk when you post it.

Twitter still has the edge when it comes to third-party applications, page rank and plugins, but Plurk is more personal, more fun, and more close-knit. Users who admit that they use both sites say that they post mostly business or news-related shout outs on Twitter, while going to Plurk to have fun, goofy conversations with friends.

What Is a Backlink?

backlinks

Most ordinary Internet users have encountered a link. That blue thing that they see on blogs, Web sites, Facebook accounts, even on YouTube. Just about every page of the Web has it. And when these links point to your Web site, they are called your site’s backlinks.

Backlinks, or inbound links, are incoming links to a certain Web site or page that does not originate on that particular site. Put simply, it is a link from another site that points back to your own site. If you have a Web site, pray hard that you get a lot of backlinks, as they are the only way people will get to visit your site without you telling them personally that your site exists.

An even more important thing to consider when talking about backlinks is search engine optimization or SEO. Backlinks are one way to get a higher ranking on most search engines, provided that they occur naturally. Search engine spiders are now capable of counting the number of sites pointing to your own. And most search engines consider these backlinks in ranking your site according to a particular keyword.

If you are interested to see just how many Web sites or pages have backlinks pointing to your site, you can go to Google Search at Google.com and input link:www.yoursite.com. In just seconds, the search results would list the different Web sites or pages that do link to your site, and in the upper right hand portion of the screen, you’d see the total number of sites and pages that have backlinks to your site.

Is Broadband a Cause of Our Apathy?

Recent years have seen the rise of broadband, the capability of connecting to the Internet at connection speeds of more than 200 kilobits per second, or 1.5 megabits per second (depending on who you ask, the required speeds for broadband vary).

Apart from the faster connections, however, the advent of broadband did away with the tedious task of calling your ISP, waiting for an open line, and logging in before you could surf. Now, you only have to power on your computer and you’re instantly connected. And it has been met with widespread, and even increasing, acceptance. By February 2004, 48 million American homes already had broadband connection at home, representing around 24% of American adults, and signifying a 60% increase in adoption rates from a year earlier. You can only imagine what the adoption rates are currently at.

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